This is one of those things were there are enough people telling me this that I won't push my luck with it anymore. Thank you guys for saving me a possible injury and from damaging my rifle.
I found the piece of paper in the box of triple shock bullets that I had mentioned earlier. My scanner isn't cooperating so I'll type this in: "The reduced bearing surface of the triple shock-x bullet may result in reduced pressures compared to the barnes x-bullet. To compensate for this and achieve maximum velocity it may be possible to exceed the maximum load listed by 1 or 2 grains, working u pin 1/2 grain increments. Watch for signs of excess pressure - i.e., once-fired case head expansion of more that .0005", sticky bolt lift, flattened primers, or shiney spots on the base of the case. If any of these signs appear, reduce your load by one full grain. If you don't feel comfortable with this procedure, we suggest simply using X-bullet loading data."
I didn't experience any of those pressure signs and now the question is, where do I safely stop with IMR 4350 in a 30-06?
With a 30-06, a 168gr bullet and IMR 4350:
Sierra software says to stop at 56.0grs with a 26" barrel
Barnes #3 says to stop at 59.5 (moly coated) doesn't say barrel length
Barnes #3 says to stop at 57.0 (165gr x-bullets) doesn't say barrel length
Barnes #4 doesn't list imr 4350 so I'm kinda hosed there.
Noslers #5 says to stop at 57.0 (165gr & 168gr data combined) with a 24" barrel.
Noslers #6 says to stop at 57.0 (165gr & 168gr data combined) with a 24" barrel.
Hornady #7 says to stop at 57.0 with a 23 3/4" barrel.
Swift #1 says to stop at 53.5 (165gr scirocco) with a 24" barrel.
I have a couple more books, but I'm getting tired and I think that gets the point across. My point being where do I safely stop? I'm guessing that 57.0 of IMR 4350 is a good place to call it quits. Would anyone disagree?
After all this and the next time I go to the range with that rifle I'll be trying to work up a load for 190gr matchkings, go figure the rounds are already loaded.
I appreciate everyone being patient and taking the time to help keep me from potentially getting hurt and jeopardizing my families well being, not to mention keeping me from blowing up my favorite rifle. I'd still like to learn more about this if there are any professional writing about this topic.