In know a couple, man and woman, who illegially came to the US. To keep from being deported they both joined the US Air Force, then did the paperwork to became legal. They both spent 20 years in the Air Force, raised two kids, and sent every dime they could spare back to the family in Mexico. When they were preparing to retire from the Air Force at the ages of 41 and 40, they showed me pictures of their home that her mother and brothers had built with the money they had sent them. It is a beautiful place. They told me that with their Air Force retirement they will never have to work another day in their lives. That their Air Force retirement is enough to live on comfortablly for them and her mother. Her brothers had used part to the money sent to get a better education for themselves and are now able to support their families far better than they would have without the help. In twenty years they sent a lot of money back to Mexico.
I also have a niece that married an illegal from Guatamola, the entire family is up in arms because he makes her work and she is supporting the family here in the US. They live like paupers. He makes over $35.00 an hour in high rise construction, and sends everything he makes back to his mother and father in Guatamola. I keep thinking as soon as his bank account is high enough he will disappear, taking their only child with him, and leaving my niece here. She was only a means of his staying in the US legally. The way he treats her we all feel that he does not care one bit about her, he is just using her. But we are unable to get her to see that.