I've wondered about that myself, glad you asked.
Don't know that my exp/gun will relate to the big bore's you guys are talking about.
Bought my .30 Carbine o/mod in March 1973, near as I could guess it's got around 10,000 thru it.
Almost all reloaded jacketed 110grs, and softpoints, but, has burned a lot of fmj's too.
The only two loads I've ever used in it are either: 12, or 12.5 gr H110, or H4227, which I use interchangebly depending on what powder happens to be on hand.
I just looked and there's about 3/16" rifling gone from the cone on this barrel. I don't see any wear
at all on the cyl. There is one cyl bore that sticks the case, and has for yrs. I've sent it to Ruger twice and they claim nothing is wrong with it, but, it still sticks the case every loading unless it's freshly cleaned. after the second shot it's stuck tight.
I've tried 13gr a few times and found it's too hot for this gun. Can't recall now what the indication is, just that it's too hot for some reason.
Hope this helps,
George