If you have trouble tolerating a 12 ga then you will definitely want a good recoil pad. If the only trouble was with the topper, then your not a alone. I remember getting beat up pretty good as a 13 year old with the one that was my first gun.
I don't have the 444 in a handi, but my 444 marlin loves the Beartooth 280 gr on top of 53 gr of RL-7. It isn't a max load, but it will shoot 1 1/4 inch groups all day( or as long as my shoulder lasts).