I have identical twins in 22" 12ga & 20ga. I only shoot 2 3/4 shells. YES, there is a difference in "felt recoil". Both mine are wood stocked and have no weights in the "stock bolt hole" and both have factory recoil pads.
If you can find one of the early TDC 20ga models, they have a 26" barrel, only 2" longer than the standard turkey gun. You would have the screw chokes and a vent-rib. OR The youth Pardner synthetic with a 22" barrel, no vent-rib and screw chokes.(change to wood stock to help with "felt recoil") Also, there are still a few of the youth turkey guns around, 20ga, 22" Full choke and camo stocks.
Just my $.02
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