I would not put too much faith in "articles" that discuss the engineering limits of firearms. T/C did not consider the factory .375WCF as being "too hot" for the Contender when they introduced the chambering, and the fact that they currently chamber for it confirms this fact. Frame stretching happens when the breech thrust exceeds the frame's ability to resist plastic deformation, and this is due to chamber pressure and inside case diameter, not recoil. Both cartridges have similar theoretical breech thrust at factory pressures, and both can be loaded hot enough to damage frames. The JDJ is a better choice for more power, not because it is any less likely to cause frame stretching.
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