well when you make a post that is entitled "222 for whitetails, lol" it implys that you think what you described as funny. and by throwing that out there, you have to man up and take the chewings you get. now you can get huffy over it; or you can use it to better yourself as a hunter and a person and take the guidance now offered to you. it is your choice how you handle it. for the record, considering what you posted, akacraig wasnt too far off.
you seem like a young person who either got bad advise or made a bad decision. either way, you should correct it. all hunters all go through process of maturing, and i suspect that is what you are going through; and all of us have been there to one degree or another. take the solid advise offered here, and dont hold a grudge on the guys who rightfully check you on your behavoir.
btw, i have shot deer over 200, mostly does. the biggest buck i killed was a brute of a deer (with antlers to match) and it weighed 174 pounds field dressed. add the guts and it was certainly over 200 live. does though, are usually weigh more than bucks around here.