Just starting to reload the 40 S&W for a new XD40 M with 4" barrell. I reload a number of other handgun and rifle cartridges. I will be paper punching to 25 yds but usually closer. I will also be getting Rainier plated flat pointed bullets for paper. Bullet weights are 135, 155, 165 and 180. Which one? What are the pros and cons of different weight?