So cybin what you seem to be saying is that we have become too civilized. If so, then I agree. However, I have found those who "beat" the war drum are the least likely to go to war.
It would be best to not "telegraph" ones next move. Some whom claim much military experience, in the art of war, seem to be the most proficient telegraphers.
I am in no way directing my comments at you, so do not be offended. I am simply saying that I choose my allies based on character, and calmness, coupled with determination, and agree with you, the supply of these types seems to be dwindling, and seems to be replaced with megaphone types.