I've been involved with military testing of barrel life issues in small arms calibers up through medium cannon caliber (23mm through 30mm).
My associates run military small arms maintenance shops throughout Canada and the US in support of small arms competition and training programmes. We've used industrial quality optical borescopes, pneumatic air gages and electronic borewear gages in our tests. Firing tests run into the thousands or even tens of thousands of rounds starting with new barrels.
The following observations apply:
1. Rate of fire is WITHOUT A DOUBT the major determinant of small arms barrel life. Overheating barrel steel enhances the "blowtorch effect" of small arms propellant. Slower fire, allowing the barrel to cool off, increases barrel accuracy life.
2. Friction wear is almost insignificant, even when using cast iron and steel cannon projectiles. Bore wear measurements near the muzzle frequently show little or no change throughout the firing tests. Rifle designs that must be cleaned from the muzzle (U.S. M1 & M14) frequently suffer muzzle wear from improper cleaning, not firing.
3. Visible throat erosion and wear are the first indications of loss of practical accuracy.
4. "Overbore capacity" cartridges such as the .264 Winchester Magnum, are particularly hard on barrels. The relatively large powder charge and small bore enhances the "blowtorch" effect.
5. Chromium-plated bores can more than DOUBLE service life of barrels.
6. YES, barrel life was a factor in standardizing on military rifle calibers. The 7.62x51mm/.308 Winchester and 5.56x45mm/.223 Remington give notoriously long barrel life in sporting arms.