I agree that AC is easier to hold an arc with, at least while one is learning. AC isn't any smoother in the finished product, though, so I propose that the theoretical smoothness of metal transfer is immaterial to the OP's context of occasional small jobs.
Most all of my welding is/was on and under ag equipment in the field (and buried pipe, usually with water still in it and a hole in the bottom
), so I certainly agree with you that it would be nice if all welding could be flat and on a bench. I prefer and use DC unless the appropriate rod for the job is AC-only. I never bought a dedicated tig setup since good rod became quite widely available (and inexpensive) that did a good job on the non-ferrous alloys I needed to weld. Neighbor had a good machine, though, and I got pretty good with it. Think we're far enough afield by now?