Be sure to keep tin content slightly below that of antimony and you need a bit of arsenic to make your alloy heat treatable. Wheel weight alloy, with not more than 2% tin is about as good as it gets so far as hardness obtained when water quenching from a hot mold, and will yield something on the order of 20 bhn or higher. That will be enough hardness to cure your problem.
I've tested several Lazer Cast bullets sent in by customers and never found one harder than 16 bhn, so don't bother using their bullets as a richening alloy! I don't know of any commercial casting alloy that contains arsenic either. Best source for arsenic is lead shot, which is very high, and highest with the finer sizes, second choice is Wheel weight metal, which only has a trace. But only a trace is needed, so 10% WW will normally be enough to make a good alloy heat treatable. (Arsenic is used in shot to make it round up better when dropped from shot towers, during shot manufacture.)