I don’t shoot 38’s or 357’s in mine – just load down if you want lite recoil/muzzle jump. 180 to 200 grain bullets work extremely well in the 357 Maximum. If you like jacketed bullets the 180 grain XTP behind 20 grains of IMR4227 is a good load but it is considered MAX. The book calls for starting at 18.0 grains with 20 max. I get tighter groups with 20 grains.
If you haven’t already done so, check your throats on that revolver and see if they are all consistent, as some run from 0.355 to 0.358 in the same revolver.