Keith L.... you misunderstood my post. It is a question on how to remove a strange fastener that holds the grip to the gun. I asked Smith and Wesson to tell me what it is, they ignored me.

I was hoping to find out if there is a gunsmith who has done this work. I have no problem with the rifle, even though it has only been to the range once, I put 70 rounds through it without a problem, and it will take around a year to find out how it really shoots.
I am a full grown man, and the grip on it is GI, it was intended for use by the smaller statured recruits, yes, women are now in the military and I am sure it fits many of them. But at 6' 1" I need an aftermarket unit for a man sized hand.
My next option is to write Smith and Wesson and ask again, if there is not an answer here. Right now I am sure glad I mostly buy foreign made guns other than the good ol' Rugers that have served me well.