Rdmallory,
You're new there. Give it a little time. You'll find a lot of good people there, and a lot of the new yorkers and canadians are fine people too. What part of the state are you in? I.e., on a scale of one to ten, with ten being a lot of locally owned barbecue restaurants, how would you rate your area?
The key is for you not to be just another damyankey.