Without knowing your cylinder throat and bore diameter, its an educated guess as to optimal bullet diameter. .358 is considered standard for a cast 357 mag / 38 spl lead bullet, and will not harm any in-spec, or close to in-spec gun. When you adjust a cast bullets size up or down a couple .001's, or add a gas check, it is in search of top accuracy and to minimize leading. It has no real effect on gun wear or pressure as long as standard book loads are being used.
Larry