confusing isn't it. Took me a while to figure it out too. I use the 180 Hornady SSPB. The TC reloading book has several loads for different wt bullets. I'm sure someone can help you out with this. Also, go to sixgunner.com and read Paco's back issues if you haven't already. he has a article on the 357 max and, although his loads are stout, they work wonders in my 12" hunter. That should answer ~95% of your questions. I think he even address the lighter bullet issue. I personally don't like bullets lighter than 180 becuase you don't gain as much as you lose. There is a 150 gn bullet (Rem?) that was made for the 35 rem that would be a good choice for deer. Suppose to hold up very well at the higher velocities, but i've never tried them. 180's do fine out of my pistol at 1800+, a good 150 yd+ round and real easy to shoot and hit. I'm using a 2x7 TC scope. Do a search in this forum for "357 Max" and you'll find alot of other useful information. Remember to take the advice of others at face value, work up you loads and have fun. Pacos work for me and I shoot my Max a fair amount, but don't want to reccommmend specific loads for safety reasons. Its a great round, probably my all time favorite, most useful for me. Just came back from a TX deer hunt with it. Saw nothing I wanted to shoot (full moon) but did get a chance to shoot it some more. Good Luck bg