Welcome 870expressmag. As for the wearing thing I would say you would have to shoot one A LOT in order for anything like that to happen. These are tuff little guns and endure quite well. The actual working trigger action will wear over time, but it will make your trigger lighter. Something that hardly any Handi owner would complain about. I wouldn't worry about it if I were you. Like my brother always says "just shoot your gun".
I always like that saying. It pulls me out when I am getting too technical and swimming in details. I am sure you will be well pleased when you get it back. Keep us informed on how she shoots.