Sverre,
I've been thinking about it some more...
It's like I said handy and "tough enough" would make the 97 my choice were I a one .357 guy.
Maybe you should post the ballistics that you hope to achieve and get comments on that? The Mod. 97 will get you all the performance ever intended in a .357 Magnum, whilst the Mod. 83 will probably get you all the performance envisaged in a .357 Max, or Supermag.
I'm inclined to think 180gr lead at 1300, or jackets at 1200 is very achievable in a 6" 97 from what I've read, maybe a bit more (as I said before I have an 83 so can't comment from personal experience on a 97).
Also, if I'm going for handy, I'd probably favour a barrel length shorter than 7.5" and no optics (or something small like the Doctor / Optima style you seem to favour).
If you want to shoot really long range, or turn a .357 into more of a "hunting" calibre (i.e. stretch the hunting range, or larger antelope), then an 83 with full power 180gr, or better still, 200gr, or 215gr, would get my nod.
As I said if you have bigger calibres, stretching the performance of a .357 is unnecessary for you as you have larger bore sizes that you can simply load moderately (like .45 Colt from your .454) and you can get a nice, handy, accurate and "good enough" .357 in the mod. 97, rather than a big heavy and "more cumbersome" 83.
I like the .357 vey much. And for a long time I was very happy with what I could do from my 6" Colt King Cobra - I still am.