tigmaned; This may sound silly--it did to me, but I tried it, and it works. One of our local law enforcement agancies used G21s as their standard issue gun. They put Hogue slip on grips on them, and although it makes the grip just slightly larger, it iseasier to hold and handle. Like I mentioned earlier, it's my wife's favorite gun to shoot. She is just an average sized 5'5" female, and her hands are not large at all. However, she loves the G21 and has no trouble shooting it whatsoever. The slip on grips are pretty cheap, so if you don't like them, you're not out anything, but be sure to try them.