I will start by saying I am no expert nor will I pretend to be ... so this is just my humble opinion.
When I buy a new caliber rifle, I have already picked the range of bullets I want to use in it. I do this to mostly fill the gaps in the bullet weights I am already shooting. Since we are talking about the .223 in this post, I will use that as my example. When I bought my first .223 rifle (a Savage 10FP), my intentions were to use bullets in the 40 to 55 grain range. I know as I start testing different weights, the rifle will tell me eventually what works best in it. For this rifle, the 55gr Vmax and the 55gr Nosler were outstanding. I tried 40's, 45's, and 50's but none of them came close to the 55's. When I bought my first Handi in .223 bb, my intentions were the same ... 40 to 55 gr bullets. My Handi likes 50gr Vmax and 50gr Noslers much better than the other bullet weights. Now when I bought my second Handi in .223, I expected close to the same results. It likes 45 and 50 gr bullets equally so I went with the 50 gr to help simplify buying bullets to reload.
My point is if I wanted to shoot longer, heavier bullets like 65gr, 68gr, or 70 gr bullets, I would buy a different caliber rifle. That range of bullets is covered by my .243 as it will shoot 70gr to 85 gr bullets well. I just think this method of reasoning will help feed the rifle buying frenzy we are all caught up in. I continue to buy rifles to fill in my gaps of bullets weights. Now, I want/need a rifle that will shoot 120 to 140 gr bullets well and so I am considering a 7mm-08.
Good shooting to all ...