In the instructions that came with my case forming dies, to use the case standing, decapped, about 1/2 way in water to keep the head from over heating... in dim light, heat the neck to just barely pink, dull red, etc, then tipp over into the water for a quench. I liked the process.
OR
I think it was Narramore, in his book, suggested holding the case, decapped, with your fingers, and dipping the neck in molten PURE lead, the part you want annealed. When it is too hot to hold, drop into water.
I don't doubt that either of these methods would not meet the standards of industry, but they are quick and cheap. Well, maybe not so cheap anymore. Retail on a tank of propane was $0.99, not $5.00...
SO you have to decide just how precise you need to be. You can buy Templac at Brownells if you don't have a machine shop supply house in your area. The crayon is newer to me but this is not "my field." No more than I do, the melted lead, pure lead, is plenty for me. luck.