Perhaps you mean primer protrusion (i.e., primer sitting up above the level of the case head after firing). This is usually caused by low pressure and not by high pressure. With high pressure, the primer will be flattened at the level of the case head. With more severe high pressure you start getting primer leaks or pierced primers and no protrusion. In addition, enlarging the flash hole during deburring won't happen in the first place and if it did would make it LESS likely for the primer to protrude. In fact, when shooting rubber primer powered bullets (very low pressure) one must enlarge the flash holes with a drill to keep the primers from protruding.
If you really mean extrusion (i.e., metal from the primer being pushed into the space around the firing pin hole), that is caused by high pressure. Most refer to this as cupping. It could be caused by an enlarged flash hole but I have never had this problem when uniforming primer pockets.