Not Veral, but will offer my two cents-
Limiting this note to revolvers - Assuming you are a handloader, not simply a reloader, your objective is to make it fit YOUR cylinder, not what the book says will fit your cylinder. The book is GREAT, but it is only a guide, your gun is the law.
Let's say your cylinder is short. When you seat to the book length, the bullet may hang out the end of your cylinder, preventing the cylinder from rotating into battery. If your cylinder is long, capitalize on it and get a little more performance from the increase in powder space. Your gun dictates what is too long or too short. As a general rule, too long won't fit and too short wastes space. That is probably an over-simplification, but it works. If you are looking for ultimate performance, you need all the case space you can get, so seating the bullets shorter than "cylinder length" can and does waste valuable powder space. If you are making plinking loads, this is probably not a consideration.
If you shoot cast bullets in cases 'too short', you can develop a ring of lead in your cylinder, making it difficult to chamber a standard case i.e. if you use 38Spl cases instead of 357cases. They work fine, but you stand to develop a cleaning situation that you won't get using standard 357cases. Assuming the use of standard 357cases, you have a choice. You can seat your choice of bullet 'where the book says', where the crimp groove is cut, or where your bullet just barely stays inside the cylinder. That's where I like them - filling the cylinder. These choices are yours - with your gun as the final stage of acceptance. Your gun says if your choice fits or not - the book doesn't. Your gun will tell you when it's happy with your 'choice' and for sure will tell you when it's not! Listen to it!
Years ago when I was shooting 357's, I got into all these scenarios. I had S&W's, Ruger's, TC's and Dan Wesson's. One of them would not chamber 'by the book' to save it's soul. It was simply short in overall length. A couple of them were long enough to gain me some real powder space by seating the bullets to fill the cylinder. I stopped using 38Spl cases, as I chose to not spend time cleaning what was otherwise unnecessary. I once went to an IHMSA shooting match and my buddy had made a batch of 357's 'by the book' for his Wichita single shot. Ooops! He failed to check them for fit in the gun, and the bullets were seated too long! I had some extra loaded for my 'short cylinder' and they fit OK in his gun. He went on to beat me by two targets, with my ammo.
Now that's gratitude! LOL!
Guess I've strayed from your basic question, but I hope this helps you make your 357 what 'you' want it to be.
Regards,
Sweetwater