buck fever1
Be advised the "46,000" you quote is the old CUP pressure. The new "PSI" with piezo-electronic gauges is 51,000 psi for SAAMI and 55,000 psi CIP (european test house) for the 6.5x55 Swedish cartridge. These are MAPs that take into account the older mauser actions still widely available for this cartridge. If you do have a 6.5 Swede in a modern action that recularly is cahmbered in cartridges that have MAPs of 60-62,000 psi then it is possible (FOR THAT RIFLE ONLY) to load the 6.5 Swede up to those MAPs providing other pressure problems (with cases for example) don't present themselves.
I load the Hornady 140 gr to 2750 fps right at 54,500 psi (I measure the pressure with an Oehler M43 PBL) for hunting. I also load the 120 gr bullet to 2925 fps at the same pressure. and the 100 gr HP to 3200 fps at the same pressure. Your friend's 3100 fps load with the 120 gr bullet may or may not be over the top for a modern action.
Larry Gibson