I employ the following method, which consists of several questions:
1.) Did I drop the gun?
2.) If yes, did it hit me or anyone else on the way back?
3.) Does my hand still function?
4.) Am I bleeding?
5.) Are my retinas detached?
If the answer is no to all these questions except # 3, my brother did not load the ammo, and the recoil is ok.
Ben