I don't think this thing will ever get settled - it just repeats itself in circles. Half empty or half full. Lesser of two evils - (not my phrase) Two sides of the same coin. Lose with a winner ...... yada yada.
What do we agree on? I think that in principle we are approximately close on many issues - pro 2nd, judeo-christian heritage, pro-life, pro-constitution, strong defense, personal responsibility, pro-capitalism, control immigration, personal freedom, disgruntled or through with the Republicans, democrats are same or worse, the current Obama administration is leading us to disaster, etc. There is some degree of majority agreement around these issues.
The big hot button disagreement seems more of a strategic/tactical issue: Don't vote for the lesser of two evils, send a message, I'm done with the Republicans - they're the same as the Democrats, my principles cannot be compromised any longer, I realize my vote will not impact the outcome of this election, and there are no degrees of bad; 5 million tons of crap is the same as 5000 tons because crap is crap. VS. maybe we can still beat Obama and 5000 tons of crap is crap all right, but as crappy as it is, we might be able to dig it out, maybe Sarah will develop into a pres. candidate, maybe we can get the Republicans to straighten out, we'll never undo the damage of the liberal socialist trifecta of all 3 branches, I still like Bush, I'm a Republican, etc. (THESE ARE NOT ALL MY OPINIONS - I AM JUST TRYING TO FAIRLY DESCRIBE OPINIONS ON BOTH SIDES OF THE ISSUE.)
I see and respect arguments on both sides of the issue but right now I am stuck in the middle, because I think the damage that will be done to our country is so deep and permanent that there is a significant difference between 5000 tons of crap and 5,000,000 tons. Maybe, just maybe we could have shoveled the 5,000 tons and made some progress straightening out Congress, but not the 5,000,000 tons. I believe the bigger amount breaks the back of this country. Some say there is no difference. I believe there is. Just like I don't understand why we don't use our own oil and gas while we phase in new energy saving technology at the same time. I don't like "all or nothing" and "degrees don't matter". I think we (possibly) can "correct" things incrementally without destroying everything. If so, I believe it would be the better way to go.
I voted for McCain as a tactical decision and although I absolutely disagree with many of his positions, I do respect, in fact admire his war record and as a fellow vet it does rankle me when people of the eligible age for Viet Nam who didn't serve in the military get snotty in any way regarding his service. (Leave it alone!) Lesser of two evils? Call it what you want. Could be called the better of two evils. Could simply be called the better choice period. I don't care - semantics and phrases are not the issues for me. I am not the jingle master here. If there had been a better viable candidate than McCain, I'd have voted for him or her based on their record and the issues. All I know is that we got the worst result and it will become worse than we could have imagined.
Still, I have repeatedly indicated my respect for 3rd party voters rights and choices, didn't say they wasted their vote or lost the election. They made their choices, I made mine. I may end up 3rd party myself even in the face of some of the baloney spewed by some - because I will decide on the issues from my perspective. Yet, I keep reading about those who did not vote or agree with 3rd party last Nov. that we are "transfixed" and can only vote as we were taught by the government, (like we are a bunch of Zombies or something) yada, yada. Now TM-7 is telling me to quit voting for the dual headed monster. Cajoling takes the place of discussion I guess. Silly monster and coin analogies and slogans with mis-defined words take the place of reason.
I have tried to be about as fair, honest, and polite as I can about this debate. Hopefully we can get out from under the 5,000,000 tons of crap someday. I'll decide for me how I vote and why. Hope you all do the same and I won't criticize your choice or mock you for it.