Since this thread is still active, I'll throw out a question to the OP - have you made a choice? Report?
Having fired 22's and 38's of various flavors as a kid, I wanted a real revolver. That was my thinking 30 years ago. At 30, I bought a Model 19 S&W 357mag. 6", nickel plated, the works. Loved it so much, I gave it to my 2nd wife when we divorced.
During the 13years I had that revolver, I also had a USArms Abilene 45Colt 71/2" and a USArms Abilene 44Mag 45/8". I sold the 44Mag right off. The 45Colt would shoot cloverleafs. I should have kept it, but I didn't. I also bought my first Ruger Blackhawk, a 41Mag in 1980, after reading several articles and having shot a couple different 44mags. I've never been sorry and have had a dozen different new and old model blackhawks, all in 41Mag. Also have a companion Marlin rifle, and that rifle is way too much fun!!
My present love is a 51/2" SS Bisley Blackhawk 41Mag. A couple years ago I got a deal on a 71/2" Bisley Blackhawk in 45Colt. My present wife also likes to shoot, but never cared for the 41mag even when lightly load. I think it's the name "magnum". Anyway, she fell in love with the 45Colt and is a dead shot with it. I load her 260gr lymans and lees at 900fps+/- and she shoots round after round. It's pleasant for her and not really a wimpy load. YUP, it's her's. I even had her initials put on the custom holster I had made in Thompson Falls, Montana. I never dreamed she would like it and it does what is is suppossed to do without a lot of bang and crash. She likes that! I like that she likes that! Makes my life simpler....
If you haven't made a choice, or even if you have - hang out at an IHMSA shooting match or other similar scenerio. When I was running matches 20 years ago, we always had extra ammo available for "after the match" shooting and sharing. No better way to get a person into a shooting match than to provide the pathway with gun and ammo and guidance. I was already a member, but it afforded me the opportunity to shoot stuff like the FA83 in 454Casull in the early 90's that I will never forget and probably never be able to afford. I shot several matches with a borrowed 6TCU RemXP100 with a 2oz set trigger! Memories....
Summary: I've never been sorry to have been consumed by the 41Mag, but I do wish I had kept that first 45Colt and never purchased the 357Mag. For me, the 45 would have been a better choice for what I was going to use it for. I shot rabbits and porcupines with the 357 - and I have worn hearing aids for the last 17 years. Took me 13 years to admit I was near deaf. The 41Mag was my "match gun" for most of my production class shooting and all my "big game hunting" if a handgun was being used. Took several deer and untold numbers of antelope at ranges from "up close and personal" to "unreportable", translated no one would believe it anyway.... I was shooting a lot back then and 200 yard sillouete targets were no chore at all with that Blackhawk. Anything that will knock those targets over will take down an antelope. Today, I don't shoot that often and don't see that well anymore. (though we are making an offer on a house that we looked at yesterday near Naples with a 250yd shooting range in the yard and a great sand hill for a backstop). I may get my touch back, but I'd have to start using a scope for any serious distances. It's all choices and ethics, but they are your choices and you are allowed to change your mind at any point along the way. ENJOY!!
Regards,
Sweetwater