Probably like most men here if I need/want it, and I have the money, and can justify spending it, I just get it for myself - for me that's a long painful process. I can drop $ on the family in a heart beat. I've been agonizing over a guitar for a long while now, still playing an old POJ chinese special. I'd never ask for one, but it turns out my wife bought one for me for Christmas. I'm truly blessed!