In these hard economic times, people will learn that their "better than you" fancy veneer will have to come off. What really matters will be revealed, and it aint the things that many folks have been amassing in our generation. It will take a major attitude change. I see that happening lately, Chips on shoulders falling, snobbiness fading, where I'm at. I say, be open, be kind, be willing to mend fences so to speak.