I run my finger over the primers after they're seated to feel for any high ones.
A tip; My bench is flat. I used 3/4 sanded plywood for the top surface sealed w/spar and keep it clean,,If I spill powder I can brush it off and put it back un-contaminated.
Anyway's,,It might seem like an extra step,,but right after I prime a case, I put it on the bench's flat surface before it goes in the tray,,you can tell right away if the primer is seated flush.