I'm with huntswithdogs. Find a local gunshop/range that will let you try out different guns. Just picking one up and holding it, just doesn't cut it. I really like the feel of a single action revolver, but have always shot better with a double action.?? You might try several of each action, if you can. I like my S&W MP in .40, but the Glock in the same caliber, just doesn't "fit'' right in my hand. (small hands I guess) And, don't forget, if a shop works with you and gets a pistol you like, and their $10-$20 higher than the other guy, how much was their advice and help worth. gypsyman