that reminds me of my neighbors: their oldest kid is moderately retarded and they get all kinds of aid for that, yet the wife does NOT work and drives around in a fairly new car and parties all the time while the husband works, and they're swingers and use recreational drugs and drink (can't pay for their kids though). meanwhile I'm a disabled vet and have to live within my means (yes, I DO get a disability check, but it's compensation for war wounds not an entitlement check for being a screw up)