Jesus certainly was no whimp. He stated he could call 10 legions of angels to free him if he chose. Instead he took an incredible beating (Isaiah 53) He was bruised for our transgressions and by his stripes we are healed. At any point he chose he could have gotten off the cross and walked away just merely by the power of His own Name. When the soldiers cam to arrest him they asked if he was Jesus he replied I am he and they fell down. Jesus loved us so much he contained his power and suffered at our hands that we might be reconciled to Father God. Now that is not the action of a whimp that is the action of a very very tough, loving, compasionate older Brother. That's my older brother by the way. Anyone or church that denies Jesus as the true Messiah, Savior, Lord of Lords, King of Kings, the Living Son of God are not Father Gods children. Since I am a child of Father God that makes Jesus my older brother. Yes I will hide behind my older brother. He knows full well of my weakness and failures but loves me anyway.
Oh what was the OP anyway? Well never mind Jesus is awesome, if you don't know him you should just ask. I'll be happy to tell you about him. He will accept you just as you are.