Ha! I am so embarrassed!
After I posted my problem and question, I tinkered around a bit more with that little Belgian beauty and tried inserting the magazine in before mounting the slide to the frame........and it all came together slick as snot!
With the magazine inserted, it allowed the slide to go all the way back to engage the slide lock lever which in turn allowed the barrell rails to come back far enough to engage the grooves in the frame. With a 180 degree turn of the barrel, the whole thing fits together again like a hand in a glove!
I hope this information may help someone else in the future.