The problem we all have as riders is that everything on the road is much bigger than we are.
And a lot of drivers don't even see us. Years ago, Like in the early 70s, I was sitting at a 4way stop in a residental neighborhood. I was on a Hodaka , it was red & chrome. I was wearing a bright blue down jacket and a black helment with flames on it. I thought I was very visable.
A older gentelman was on my right at the 4way stop. It was his turn so i sat there waiting as he proceded to make his left hand turn. When it became obvious he was cutting the turn short and would take me out if he continued on his present course, I yelled at him. He had his window down fortunally, and he looked my way and saw me for the first time. He did stop a few feet from me. He said where did you come from.
I informed him I had been sitting there the whole time. I don't think he believed me.
Lets face it, If we don't drive defenseviely we will be injured or killed. I've been ridding about 45 years. I've gone down twice without serious injury. And avoided beeing run over more times than I like to remember. I guess when It starts to bother you it's time to give it up.
I understand how you & your wife feel Swampy. My family was not happy when I bough My last 2 bikes. They talked it over & informed my it was time to quit. I'm 66 and too stuborn to quit.I guess although I know I probably should.
Regards,