In .38 Special (non-plus P) I have used these loads, for general woods carry, and mercy shots on deer. All my favored loads use 158 grain lead cast SWC's.
H2400 (9.5 grains) 950 fps (yes this is non +P)
W571 (6.7 grains) 800 fps
H4227 (10 grains) 950 fps
I never could get the accuracy I wanted from lighter bullets, and these will expand nicely if cast soft.
the 571 load has the lightest recoil, but the best accuracy was from the 2400 load, use standard primers (non-magnum) with all loads.