The Nyclads are no longer made but you can find them around if you look, my distributor even has them marked way down, so I bought several boxes. As for the 110 Silvertip, I think it's a little light for defensive duties, I'd opt for the 125 Silvertip or the 158 lead hollowpoint the FBI and numerous other agencies made famous as the Metro Load.
Federal's 130SXT also performed well in my tests, though expansion is pretty iffy from a two-inch. Whatever you choose, make sure she practices, and I don't just mean two-handed standing! If it's a bed gun, have her shoot from lots of potential positions, like prone, supine, kneeling behind cover, etc. Just remember when she is shooting upwards, to keep in mind where your backstop is! :eek:
PJ