Now I know recoil is subjective, but I have had my BC for what must be getting close to ten years now, and with the exception of a few T-Rex loads I worked up just to see what kind of performance I could get without pressure signs, I have never founmd the recoil anything but pleasant. I also shoot muzzleloaders with curved buttplates and find them more comfortable than the modern flat buttplate, but that is off topic, sorry. Anyway, with my BC, I finally figured out that loads that are in the range of the original loads are plenty potent enough for what I need/want out of this rifle and still handl pleasantly. I usually shoot the Lee 450gr plain base RNFP bullet, and most of my loads are between 1200 and 1500 fps. Are you using factory ammo, or handloading? If you handload, you can always slow down your loads a bit and decrease your recoil also.
I always wonder why these rifles aren't more popular, because other than the occasional complaints about recoil, the excellent accuracy is usually the very next thing people mention.