Thanks for the suggestions guys, but I finally did get the oil out. I tried a couple things that fell flat on me.
One suggestion was to use a heat gun, warm the spot, and put a pile of kitty litter on the spot , to draw out the oil. Well, I use kitty litter in my blacksmith shop, to bury hot blades in, so they can gradually cool to "normalize". ..But I figured that pail full is in my shop, so it would be damp.
So not having any kitties, I decided to went to Dollar General, and picked up a small bag of the stuff, Imagine my surprise, when I got home and opened the bag, just to find I had bought nothing but a bag full of fine gravel !!
So I went to Youtube and consulted Larry Potterfield..... and ended up doing it his way.. That oven & paper towels does sound like a good idea though.
But I am still bent out of shape over the gloves..but no surprise, I have trouble finding any gloves of adequate size...