Have you ever shot 45acp in a revolver? If you have, you realized what a mild load the standard 45acp really is, and the same round in a 1911 gives the illusion of recoil, when it's really the stop of the slide at the back of the cycle.
The 10mm in a 1911 requires a much stouter slide spring, and the cycle is more violent slowing down recovery for the next shot. The FBI found this out when they tried it go to it.
I've never been much of a hunter with pistols other than small game, as my business was law enforcement, and a pistol had to be reliable, and controllable, but needed the power to stop, but not be too much.
A 44 magnum is notoriously famous for NOT shedding its energy inside the human body, but out the other side. The 10mm isn't that much different for my purposes.
So I guess it depends on what you intend to use it for.
My all time preference is the 357 magnum AND the 125 grain SEMI jacketed hollow point. At around 1550 to 1600fps it dumps most of its energy within about 16 inches of tissue.
The 10mm is a good round depending on what you're thinking of using it for. The 40 S&W is a more easily controlled round, and a good stopper, and cheaper, and easier to find.
But we're talking about my needs and I carry a pistol strictly based on fighting.
Your reasons likely are different.
The 10mm intimidates a lotta folks and can cause some bad habits. Your probably not one of those, but I dont consider it a fighting caliber if that's your interest in it.