bikenut,
You make a very good point, several really, on the whole issue of introducing kids to stuff like guns, and also riding.
As far as "child abuse" goes, this is how my "backwoods" brain sees it. It seems to me that knowing your child will most likely end up getting his hands on a gun, car, motorcycle, or any number of other potentially dangerous items, probably before he's even close to being 18, or legaly an adult, wouldn't it be more like abuse not to try to prepare him(or her) for it early? I mean, even the dumbest parent knows that kids are most impressionable in the years up to maybe 10 years old, so it just makes good sense to me that if you want them to aproach these potential hazards later in life with some common sense, and responsibility, you need to start them out while they're most easily trained.
This is a great post Buckskinner.