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Holding my tongue...
« on: August 10, 2021, 01:49:11 AM »
I am a volunteer member of the church choir.  The former Band Director of the local High School is our volunteer Choir Director and she is LIBERAL to the extreme.  She writes and forwards a LOT of liberal junk on the Net.

I want to challenge her publicly (and have a few times - to the consternation and reproach of my spouse, who is the official paid "Music Director and Accompanist" for the church), but hold my tongue (and my typewriting fingers) because I HAVE BEEN TOLD to leave it alone.

Emotionally, a "music snob" (a term of endearment), and an empath, the volunteer Director withers under pressure in the white hot spotlight of truth.  So I don't pick on her, because it is too easy. 

My lovely spouse is friends with and NEEDS the volunteer Director to keep us as 4-part (dis)harmony, guttural, dragging, page wandering, pecking hen and cackling rooster vocalists, in line, on time, and on pitch, raising us all to a greater potential.  We get a LOT of complements from the community and especially from The Bishop, which is very good for job security.  The choir would be immeasurably worse without the volunteer Director.

I have been told - for the good of the choir - not to raise political issues with her.  Fortunately, the majority of our choir members are conservative, so I am in good company there.

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Re: Holding my tongue...
« Reply #1 on: August 10, 2021, 02:05:23 AM »
Once I determine someone is liberal eft, I know pretty much everything I need to know. To me they're like lawyers (whom are usually liberal). I don't feel compelled to talk to, or associate with them, in any way.
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Re: Holding my tongue...
« Reply #2 on: August 10, 2021, 05:08:27 AM »
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  I'll pass..
"They have the guns and therefore we are for peace and for reformation through the ballot. When we have the guns, then it will be through the bullet"      (Saul Alinsky) ...hero of the left..

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Re: Holding my tongue...
« Reply #3 on: August 10, 2021, 05:41:23 AM »
...and the right thing to do is hold your tongue. Nothing you say to her will change her mind.
Those people who will not be governed by God will be ruled by tyrants.    Wm. Penn

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Re: Holding my tongue...
« Reply #4 on: August 10, 2021, 08:40:11 AM »
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   I have to pass, because I should not comment on anything choir, simply because I could not make the team.

  No way I could even carry a tune in a bucket !   ;) ;D ;D
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Re: Holding my tongue...
« Reply #5 on: August 10, 2021, 10:58:45 AM »
The problem is the choir director being a woman, and a liberal one, probably can't hold her tongue.
We're in a cultural civil war right now......and every tongue has its breaking point. Good luck.

  True, TM..

   Apparently this choir director doesn't "hold her tongue', so why are others, perhaps targets of her tongue.. obligated to do so ?
"They have the guns and therefore we are for peace and for reformation through the ballot. When we have the guns, then it will be through the bullet"      (Saul Alinsky) ...hero of the left..

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« Reply #6 on: August 10, 2021, 11:11:46 AM »
What I was thinking. If the other is not holding her tongue. Then. Why should you? If holding her tongue, then? Being the head of the household. You are not always going to please mama. Butt. When they knock on your door, who deals with them"

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Re: Holding my tongue...
« Reply #7 on: August 10, 2021, 12:30:59 PM »
I ain't gonna judge the situation of a fight I ain't in.
You may all go to hell, I will go to Texas. Davy Crockett