Hey Jeff,
I just purchased a 12" .44 Mag barrel from Midsouth for $196. I put a 2x Burris on it and it is one of my best setups. It doesn't kick any more then my .30-30. You will love this setup if you go with it. As to load I shot a mild plink load of 9.5 grains of W231 under a 240 grain bullet.
As to hunting round I load 20 grains of H110 under a 240 XTP HP. This is a little thumper, but really not that bad. Just remember it is not for plinking! I don't wear a shooting glove, but do put on a leather winter type hunter glove and the felt recoil is slight.
Happy hunting and shooting friend! :wink:
LL