Balak Jaque, The Speer manual and others addresses this. They give COL's that compensate for seating depth and warn not to substitute other bullets for the ones listed. This is not unique to 9mm's, it also applies to 38 Super, 40 S&W, and 10mm. They all run chamber pressures in the 30-35,000+ PSI range. Deeper seating results in very high chamber pressures.
You have probably noticed the reported KaBooms, especially with the 40 S&W, and primarily with the Glocks. This phenomenon is caused by repeated loading and unloading a duty gun with the same cartridge. After a few loads & unloads, the bullet gets pushed deeper in the case and when the round is finally fired, the pressure skyrockets resulting in a KaBoom. Glock feed ramps (older frames) tend to bump the bullets and that's why you hear of so many incidents. Many times the round had not been previously chambered. Glock has since reworked their feed ramps so they won't do this.
I've been retired from gunsmithing for 5 years but back when the 9mm was the most popular LE gun, I used to get S&W's in the shop quite often with blown barrels. Mostly S&W mod 39/59's and some 2nd generation S&W models. Their barrels were weak to start with, compounded by the "deep bullet syndrome". That was before "forums" so the word didn't get around as much. I also had several 10mm Delta Elites with fractured slides. The Colt barrels held up well but the intense pressure made the slides crack.
You're right about the 38 Specials. The larger (mostly empty ) case is loaded to 18-22,000 psi chamber pressure. Seating a bullet deeper will increase the pressure but not to dangerous levels. The 45 Colt, 45 ACP, and 44 Special are other very forgiving low pressure rounds.
Unspellable, The origional Luger ammo was loaded with a pointed 125 grain bullet that did indeed make it longer and made it feed better. That bullet design was notorious for over penetration and was later replaced with a lighter & shorter round nose design. Most newer 9mm magazines won't accomodate the older and longer ammo. Also, the 9mm is the most popular chambering in the world. As such, there are literally hundreds of ammo makers that produce this round. SAAMI has good compliance here in the US but much of the foreign made 9mm ammo does not comply with SAAMI specs for length and chamber pressure. You won't see me shooting anything but US made ammo in any of my 9mm guns.