Best advice I can give you, is to locate your "room"(it needs a locked door) somewhere your wife won't be temped to "clean". Mine did once and it was as close as we've come to a divorce. I was seeing red, really, and roaring about her ancesters clear back to the 3rd century. I had stuff I never did find and not all of it was mine. So you know how that goes, it was 28 years ago and I still hear about it(no they never forget). But she dosen't enter my room unless I'm there either. LOCK THE DOOR!!!!