Bubba-
There's a lot to be said for those 38 special +P guns from S&W. They only weigh about 15 or 16 ounces, and there's lots of very good 38 ammo on the market these days. Personally, I wouldn't want to pull the trigger on an 11 ounce 357 mag, so those little titanium guns don't really do it for me. A lot depends on how you dress, how good your gun leather is, and how you're willing to change your style of dress to be able to carry a handgun concealed.