I kinda agree with the idea of a RCBS Jr press from Ebay. I have been using one for over 40 years and haven't seen any reason to "upgrade". And I also agree that reloading can be a black money hole if you jump into it at the top end and then find its not for you.
If you have a friend to mentor you and you have tried reloading on his equipment and feel its something that you would like and would stick with, then buy the best "stuff" you can afford. FWIW, the Lee starter kit is a good one and what it does, it does well. You probably won't be able to pass it on to your children but as you learn more, you can upgrade items one at a time without breaking the bank.
If you "just want to see", then I suggest you get a Lee Loader, a pound of powder, a box of primers and a box of bullets and go to it. Only about a gazillion or so of ammo has been produced with a Lee Loader. Bench Rest shooters still use in line reloading tools and a plastic mallet to craft their ammo while at the range.