I shoot new brass one time and when I have a box (50 or 100) that have been shot in my gun, I trim them to length of the shortest. I then check them every 3 or 4 shots. When more than a few thousandths difference, I trim again.
The OAL length of your cartridges my seem to be .004 different, but are they really?
A buddy and I make our own bullets for silhouette shooting. We make sure the lead does not extrude out the top of the bullet jacket. After the final point forming process, the bullets are usually within + or - .001.
The big producers will often sell bullets with lead extruding out beyond the jacket. After these bullets come out of the point forming die, they go into another die that uniforms the extruded lead. When these bullets are then packaged and shipped, they knock around and the soft lead dimples and deforms.
The die manufacturers put in a seating stem that will match the ogive of the typical bullet (whatever they feel that may be). The ogive is the curve or taper of the bullet from point to bearing surface where the bullet contacts the rifling.
So what does this all mean? If you have bullets with lead extruding out the point, you may have what appear to be shorter loads due to deformed lead points. If stem of your seating die is seating using the point, it could be deforming the lead and making a difference in length. They could be dimpled from shipping. etc. If your seating die stem is seating using the ogive of the bullet (not the very point of the bullet) they could be exactly the same length at that ogive bearing point, but appear different length due the the lead coming out the tip.
This is one of the reasons they came out with the hard points that come in some bullets. The early steel core or bronze points are good examples. So are the new Nosler Ballistic Tips and Hornady A-Max and V-Max bullets.
I have one seating die that I modified by using JB Weld. I put a release agent in the die and put in JB Weld. I then used a seated bullet that my gun liked to form the JB Weld to exact bullet ogive. After the JB Weld hardened, I used a dremel tool to remove some of the material in the tip point area. The stem seated using the ogive of the bullet only.
I know I type alot and I appologize for that. I hope this does help you though.
Steve