I don't understand all those people that feel it is such a terriable situation for a 14 year old boy to have sex with an older woman. Ha, that's when mother nature gives him the hormons and the ability. And afterwards he's the strutingist little rooster on the block. Makes him feel growen up somewhat. And it's all part of growing up. It's not a trematic happening for a boy, it's the greatest feeling he has ever had up to that point. Unless someone tries to shame him over it and convience him it was wrong. That's where the emotional scaring comes from. It's hard for women to understand, emotionally men are differant from women, to us it is a physicological right of passage. Something we look forward to, and accept. Women are physiclogically differant yet they want to paint our emotions with the same brush. They can not understand why we don't look at it the same way. It's their way period, they won't accept our views on the subject.
The young man looks at it as a conquest (Yea, I scored) his mother looks at it as (My baby got raped) mean while the young man's buddies are praising him.
It's been going on since the beginning of time, no way we are going to stop it. So don't worry about it and go on with life. Stop putting the women in jail. There is more boys waiting in line behind him.